I used to be very found of my past : my story about what happened, my feelings, my anger, my sorrow, my resentments… my, oh my… as you may know, our stories have little to do with what happened. a story can be good, bad, intersting or just boring, depending on the thoughts going through our mind – in reality there is no story (it’s in the past anyway, so who can tell exactly how it was?). 

Stories may became very boring, because you have to listen to your story every time you tell it to your friends ;-)! Sometimes, they are patient and they listen. So, this may be a good recipe: tell your story again and again and at some point you may hear that you are totally out-of-track and it becomes easier to through it in that special place called the recycle bin. And then you are free!